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Post by Kaylan-R on Jan 22, 2006 18:08:03 GMT 11
Okay. So i am in a band and yeah.....but we are doing our first official public performance tomorrow and i am sh*tting myself!
I mean, they cant actually expect me to sing in front of them!(well they do), but i am soooo afraid.
I mean, i can sing well and people say so at school, BUT THIS IS A FREAKING PUBLIC PERFORMANCE!
I mean, i dont think i can handle it.
Can anyone help?
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Post by Netty on Jan 22, 2006 19:12:32 GMT 11
Good luck Kaylan! I'm sure u will be fine. They do say that if u get nervous on stage to just imagine evryone in the audience naked, but I reckon that would be even scarier!
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Post by Ness on Jan 22, 2006 22:50:53 GMT 11
mythbusters proved that seeing people naked makes things worse so dont do that one kaylan... just take deep breaths... not that im a preformer or anything so i cant really give good advice but i think that if u just pretend ur singing in front of the mirror and that it isnt public might help...
good luck!
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Post by Talmina on Jan 23, 2006 9:36:29 GMT 11
if you have done any drama, focusing skills you use to get into character are really good for helping with that sort of thing. I always got into a character of sorts for oral presentations at school, which made things a lot easier.
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Post by Kaylan-R on Jan 23, 2006 9:55:51 GMT 11
okay then. Today is the day. My band and I are performing at 9:30 and its 9:00 now. I guese i'll just take deep breaths and relax and stuff. I tried picturing the audience naked before but i just got even more scared cause i was like;'how am i supposed to sing in front of naked people?' I used to sing in choir, but that was a group of people! Well...i'll just try my best! Thanks for the encouragement...I really need it! :/
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Post by Vespertine on Jan 23, 2006 11:39:45 GMT 11
Ahhhh, I have the same problem, kind of. I'm the vocalist in a band too... I'm way too scared to sing in public though. It's hard enough in front of my band. They think I'm stupid for being afraid but still... eep. Good luck though! I hope you do perfectly.
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Post by Kaylan-R on Jan 23, 2006 12:33:47 GMT 11
okay. thankyou for your support. But there is one thing that i would like to rant about.
Our band changed its name.
TO THE MOST STUPID UNHUMAN REVOLTING SO ANNOYING SH*TTYEST ARBGHHHHHGHDEFIO WVKETGWKAHF
It is now called Psychadellic Suppository.
Argggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg
And do u know what my friend lauren said?(who is sometimes the bigest b*tch) She said: if you dont like it then you can just leave.
SO I SNUBBED HER ON MSN!
but our band is on myspace. woo uh....nice
AND....I forgot to add...we are playing a gig in term three of school. and i have to sing sk8er boi. You know, sometimes i hate having a friend who is a punk.
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Post by Min on Jan 23, 2006 14:28:09 GMT 11
Hope the gig went well anyway, despite the name change. I used to find that nerves made me perform better. They charge you up and get you focussed...
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Post by Ness on Jan 23, 2006 15:49:16 GMT 11
Hope the gig went well anyway, despite the name change.
ditto to that!
out of interest what was the original name? (i think im a bit slow off the mark here but any way) Don't worry too much about the name... if people like your sound and the way you preform and so on they won't care wat name your band has!
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Post by Kaylan-R on Jan 23, 2006 16:28:20 GMT 11
The original name was Withered Silence. I'll give my friend withered silence! She said if you dont like the name then you can just p!ss off. I really am annoyed at the moment!
AND SHE SNUBBED ME ON MSN! AND I have school tomorrow and she's in a few of my classes!
But I guese you're right Ness about the name!
I need a hug
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Post by Schis on Jan 23, 2006 19:29:48 GMT 11
*Offers a hug* Dont worry about it- did she actually block you or just not talk to you??? Coz I do that with some of my friends sometines, I just sign into MSN to see if I have any emails and see if I feel like talking and then I just sorta go off it if i dont feel like talking...
Oh and by the way, I liked the original name better too.
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Post by Becka on Jan 23, 2006 19:48:04 GMT 11
I like the original name better too... I can hardly say the new one
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Post by Kaylan-R on Jan 23, 2006 19:51:49 GMT 11
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