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Post by Miska on Oct 20, 2004 21:18:29 GMT 11
lol wrinkely at 40! i dont think so!  its the new 30 remember:P hehee...well ill be hanging out for that attraction:P
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Post by Raineth on Oct 20, 2004 21:25:25 GMT 11
Well I've gotta get wrinkly some time.
O.k maybe it will be something more like getting drunk at the nearest winery.
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Post by Miska on Oct 20, 2004 21:34:09 GMT 11
yes! that is more like it! nad a much better thought ot look forward to! *sigh* wrinkels can come after 50 or hey 60! even better! jsut dont get to much sun:P
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Post by Arien on Oct 20, 2004 21:40:43 GMT 11
yeah, use tanning lotion 
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Post by Raineth on Oct 20, 2004 21:41:44 GMT 11
I have long ago come to the realisation that my skin is rather melanin challenged. I sun-cream up everywhere even my legs. So it should be o.k I do have freckles on my shoulders though but I actually like them. I can't explain why something to do with reminding me of leopards or something. Its probably just my imaginations way of giving me a good body image. But its all good if thats the case!
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Post by Miska on Oct 20, 2004 21:48:12 GMT 11
must certainly is..and its more fun! plus freckelsnad stuff make us differnt! the chance of someone else having the exact same freckle! imposible really
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Post by Miska on Oct 20, 2004 21:57:58 GMT 11
lol...u no as crazy as this sounds if i ever have kids i want boys nad one girl tho im never goin to have them cos they jsut sux...even tho i tend to love everyone elses kids:P ...*sigh*
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Post by Raineth on Oct 20, 2004 21:58:26 GMT 11
three girls= insanity! ahhhhh get me out of here!
Boys are lovely, if I was to have more I'd want boys.
Even trisfit who is totally wrapped around Eleanors little finger shudders at the idea of another girl! They are so difficult, well atleast ours is anyway.
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Post by Miska on Oct 20, 2004 22:01:47 GMT 11
lol...hmmm i usually think boys are harder to handle! im jsut not a girl fan...
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Post by Raineth on Oct 20, 2004 22:08:26 GMT 11
Well she has only just turned two, maybe she will get easier as she gets older. I have felt without a doubt that from the moment I was in labour with him, Leo was and would always be no trouble at all. So far I've been right.
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Post by Miska on Oct 20, 2004 22:31:13 GMT 11
well u get feeling like that and they are hardly ever worng!
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Post by Monster on Oct 21, 2004 0:15:25 GMT 11
might be nice to have kids sometime
not now though
too much to do
don't care about gender or amount
Omega
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Post by Dameon on Oct 21, 2004 10:28:08 GMT 11
I find girls much easier than boys. (This is based on the fact that I have to work with primary schoolers on a regular basis)
I'm starting work at a new school today, and James (my coworker) and I told this school we refused to work with all boys. We insisted they throw some girls into the mix, because 8 boys is just murder, and we can't handle it.
Even when I work with the high schoolers, I still prefer the girls!!!
Then again, I work with kids who have social problems, or depression or anxiety. And boys tend to act outward, making them rowdy and difficult (usually, I'm generalising here), whereas girls are usually directing their problems inward, so they're quieter.
That's what my experience is, anyway. If I was a single mum, (note that I discount completely the idea of NOT being single), then I'd want girls.
But I guess every kid is different!
KSL
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Post by Raineth on Oct 21, 2004 14:25:19 GMT 11
Being a single mum would be so difficult. I have such a hard and lonely time when Trisfit gets sent away. But the best thing is having someone to enjoy it all with even more than having someone there to help you when its tough. Its hard to explain but for instance Ele started walking while Trisfit was away and it wasn't as fun sitting there by yourself with no one else to get excited with you.
If your courageous enough to do it KSL my hat goes off to you. But from where I'm sitting its also sad to think of kids growing up without a dad.
Raineth
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Post by Monster on Oct 21, 2004 18:37:36 GMT 11
it'd be hard to be a single parent but it would be better than having a bad partner screwing up your kid
Omega
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Post by Dameon on Oct 21, 2004 18:46:49 GMT 11
I don't think I should have kids at all for the same reason (or one of them) that I don't believe I should marry.
It's just not fair on them. I've got serious problems connecting to people emotionally. It's just not fair for me to have kids, when i know I might not be able to love them as much as I'd want to.
KSL
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Post by Monster on Oct 21, 2004 19:28:53 GMT 11
i don't think anyone can know for sure the type of parent they'd be
it also depends on the childs attitude
if you try your best though i guess thats all you can do
except for taking a few courses and getting advice but that will only take you so far
Omega
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Post by Raineth on Oct 21, 2004 20:55:25 GMT 11
Its funny but nature really helps the bonding go along. Some of our hormones actually give us the feelings of attachment and protectiveness. Especially breastfeeding, it releases these hormones when your baby is feeding and you can just feel yourself loving them more and more as you do it (Well thats after the first few weeks when it stops hurting). But ofcourse you don't need to breastfeed to bond with your baby otherwise Fathers would be stuffed.
And ofcourse it would be better to be a single parent than having someone bad involved in the upbringing of your child. But if thats the case why were you bedding them in the first place? Its something to consider you know "i'm sleeping with this person but what if we end up pregnant. How would it be having a child with this person?" It sounds rediculous I guess becasue of Birth control and everything. But I was on the pill when Ele was conceived, so it can happen.
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Post by Monster on Oct 21, 2004 21:00:41 GMT 11
is no one safe
you raise a good point raineth
Omega
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its the new 30 remember:P hehee...well ill be hanging out for that attraction:P
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