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Post by Never Undressing Sneer on Jun 21, 2005 13:29:35 GMT 11
nice theory. i dont comlpetely get them either, but sometimes i dont comletely get girls so...*shrugs*
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Post by Talmina on Jun 21, 2005 17:25:02 GMT 11
i generally DONT get girls anywhere near completely, i understand guys a lot better, if i get a chance to observe and talk to them
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Post by ~Dani~ on Jun 21, 2005 17:57:50 GMT 11
I don't usually get ANYONE!!
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Post by talisha on Jun 21, 2005 21:26:17 GMT 11
I can usually understand most peopl egenerally.. sometimes i play dumb and pretend that i cant when its something embarrassing though.. does anyone else do that?
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Post by Maeve on Jun 22, 2005 5:24:59 GMT 11
elspethseeker, my advice to you is that you should ask him what exactly he is doing it's wierd but even just letting things happen can lead to nothing happening because you both don't know whether or not the other wants something to happen, if that makes sense. I can't stand those games of trying to figure out the other person, just ask them! the guys i know all say the same thing, it would be so much simpler if you didn't haveto worry about signals and everyone was just up front.
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Post by Elspethseeker on Jun 22, 2005 5:34:48 GMT 11
i think I will. I had another guy friend who ummm was flirting and i was like wow this is a new quarter that this is coming from. but i get tired of the games as you say, so I straight out asked him f the was going somewhere and where exactly was that. He said he didn't know so i said fine and said stop flirting. so he did. I swear it seems as if all the guys i know are now suddenly flirty and just looking for a good time.
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Post by Dark One on Jun 22, 2005 9:11:29 GMT 11
most guys get to that age at some point. Give 'em a couple of years and some should grow out of it.
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Post by ~Dani~ on Jun 22, 2005 10:11:17 GMT 11
Just give them about ten years and then they grow up
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Post by Kaylan-R on Jun 22, 2005 12:11:48 GMT 11
lol That should do it.
My mother is always telling my father to grow up.....and other things because of his non - growed - up - ingness. lol lol
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Post by Elspethseeker on Jun 22, 2005 13:24:37 GMT 11
I think in the end guys never really grow up. i say at age 25 they will be in a place where they are mature enough to pass a s grown up.
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Post by Never Undressing Sneer on Jun 22, 2005 15:34:04 GMT 11
hmmm... yer. my dad is as mature as my brother...
there are almost 20 years between them but... though that could be because my dads immature.
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Post by Dark One on Jun 22, 2005 19:17:47 GMT 11
Ah, but life is boring if you're too mature. You've just got to know when to act sensibly, and when you can get away with being a kid
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Post by Marija on Jun 24, 2005 21:58:18 GMT 11
That be very true, Dark One! Like I act like a total kid, yet I can be sensible ^_^ Aren't I wonderful! Lol! So vain!! =P
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Post by Kaylan-R on Jun 25, 2005 18:15:54 GMT 11
I'm a total kid too, sometimes I can be so stoopid.
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Post by Elspeth on Jun 26, 2005 17:33:27 GMT 11
Oh I definitely agree - you don't have to behave grown-up all the time. Where's the fun in that? But I do think you have to draw a line between having fun and being immature. Just look at the people on Big Brother at the moment. I'm sure they all think they're grown up and mature, but they behave like self-centred morons most of the time (with one or two exceptions). Yes, have fun, but don't have fun at someone else's expense. But I guess we'll never understand other people, really. We're just too complicated!
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Post by Kaylan-R on Jun 26, 2005 17:42:16 GMT 11
Oh I definitely agree was that directed to me?
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