Elspethseeker
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Post by Elspethseeker on Oct 16, 2004 14:32:27 GMT 11
hahaha as you can tell i have guy probs.
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Post by brydie on Oct 16, 2004 14:39:44 GMT 11
RUN AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by Arien on Oct 16, 2004 14:42:45 GMT 11
I'm with Brydie!! AHAHAHADHGHGHHAHAHHH!!!!!!!!! *runs off screaming*
...ok, I'm a really sucky guy probs helper  sorry Elf..
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Post by Raineth on Oct 16, 2004 14:51:59 GMT 11
Just take baby steps. Be tentative and see where it leads you. Smile- I think smiling is good.
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Post by brydie on Oct 16, 2004 15:02:07 GMT 11
hmmmm....other than running away, i cant think of anything unless i konw what the guy is like...details pleasew?
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talisha
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Post by talisha on Oct 16, 2004 15:08:59 GMT 11
ok, if you were meaning flashy like i think you were meaning flashy, dont be flashy!
I have two brothers, and one doesnt really talk about it, but the other openly finds it repulsive when girls dress like umm.. how to word it... well im sure you know what i mean, so i wouldnt do that....
i cant remember the in between options, but dont run away! You'll get no where with that!
I'd suggest just starting to talk to him, just little baby steps like Raineth said. Smiling is always good, but just try to say hi to him everytime you see him and make conversation when you can, just little things that which wont be obvious or too distressing for you to do!
Good luck!
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Post by Miska on Oct 16, 2004 17:35:59 GMT 11
im gonna agree with raineth! u see smile nad then progress to heloo... jsut take it one step at a tiem and before long ull be talking (if hes nice) or have gotten over it wit a new found confidence! i no ull be rite girl!
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Post by Monster on Oct 17, 2004 11:08:49 GMT 11
being a guy myself
if i found out i liked a guy my first impulse would be to RUN LIKE THE WIND
but if i liked a girl i would try to get to know her first
smiling, saying hello
and eventually talking
compliments are good but you need to control power levels and how appropiate they are
but i'm not sure if they should be used until you have actually gone out with him
not sure if you shuld take my advice though
firstly i'm a guy and and my insights are a little different
secondly i have little history in this area
but i recommend taking
its always good to get to know someone before you get involved
SOME MEN ARE COMPLETE IDIOTS AND ARE ONLY INTERESTED IN ONE THING
NOT ALL THOUGH
believe me i have been around other men for a while
Omega
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Post by brydie on Oct 17, 2004 11:55:47 GMT 11
hmmmm thats a good idea, asking a guy for his point of view...but, OD, if u were approached by a girl and she was all confident and always laughing and ignoring you, how would that make you fell? would it make u think u like her?
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Post by Miska on Oct 17, 2004 13:01:44 GMT 11
being a guy myself
if i found out i liked a guy my first impulse would be to RUN LIKE THE WIND
 anyway ur advice is good...and stay away from corney complements...things like u did well in ur speach or congrats on ur maths mark are ok...the other typical stuff isnt! it looks to desperate! but thats jsut me...OD u have good advice there...and please do answer brydies question!
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Post by Monster on Oct 17, 2004 13:07:33 GMT 11
if she approached me and then ignored me i think i would be confused by it
as for laughing my jokes get a smirk at best
lots of inuendos
i guess i'd be my normal polite and friendly self and try to get to know her better
i like getting to know people
Omega
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Post by Miska on Oct 17, 2004 13:10:32 GMT 11
everything good come from a strong based friendship!
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Post by Raineth on Oct 17, 2004 15:18:37 GMT 11
Yeah Trisfit and I had been friends since I was eight and he was ten. Friendship is good. He is still definately my best friend.
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Tammy
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There are many joys in heaven waiting to be sent to earth as angels :)
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Post by Tammy on Oct 17, 2004 15:47:23 GMT 11
definately DON'T run away! It depends who it is we NEED more info but apart from that smiling is always a good place to start, not too much thou not always smiling then I think he'd think u were a little  |
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Post by Talmina on Oct 17, 2004 17:03:34 GMT 11
i would smile at him when you see him, just ike a friendly hello smile and work your way up to talking, and then just let it happen naturally. it worked for me, and if it doesnt happen at least you have a friend out of it.
just make sure you flirt a bit when you start talking and stuff or he probably wont get the point. but i recommend starting with a friendship, it makes for a much stronger relationship.
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sorry Elf..
SNOOPY!!!!
anyway ur advice is good...and stay away from corney complements...things like u did well in ur speach or congrats on ur maths mark are ok...the other typical stuff isnt! it looks to desperate! but thats jsut me...OD u have good advice there...and please do answer brydies question! 
